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Tuesday, February 2, 2010 at 1:08 am

Fantastiske Mandag

My Danish teacher likes to share popular Danish songs and artists with us each day, and last week her Song of the Day was Thomas Buttenschøn’s “Fantastiske Mandag.” It’s a sweet song, and very oddly optimistic about Mondays.  Honestly, who likes Monday?  But according to Nina (our Danish teacher), Buttenschøn describes a cold winter day and finds delight in all the little mundane things that people normally don’t notice.  And, of course, it seems to be some sort of a love song as well.  Don’t ask me to analyze it yet, though, I don’t speak Danish. (Jeg taler ikke Dansk.)

Today was a Monday, and a wearing one at that.  It started off long, and slow, and long…but fortunately ended wonderfully.  Before I go into the details, a few general updates:

Now for more about my fantastiske Monday.  This evening after class, there were about 5 things I could have done.  (1) A group of people from my Danish class went to see country music at a bar, which I was tempted to attend for the lulz (Danish…country music?) and the company.  (2) The Couchsurfing group in Copenhagen had a pancake night in Christiania, and I’ve been wanting to actually meet some young Danes in Denmark.  (Don’t get me wrong, my host family is awesome, but young, mobile travelers would be nice to get to know as well.)  (3) Studenterhuset (Student House), a student-organized bar and café near DIS, is having a week-long “Insomnia Tour” for students to get to know the local bars, and they had some activity this evening.  (Also would have been a good way to meet young Danes.)  Finally, (4) my host dad had band practice tonight (he plays trumpet!) that I’ve been wanting to attend, and (5) my host sister has a weekly Monday night English class that she invited me to.

In the end, I went with option (5), and I’m happy I did!  Maria’s after-school English teacher was delightful, and we had a nice conversation about the differences between US and Danish education.  She had Maria and I play a homemade version of “Chutes and Ladders” with questions prompting discussion in English.  It was actually really entertaining, and we had lots of laughs over prompts like “Describe what a snowflake looks like.”  Henrietta (Maria’s teacher) invited me to come back and talk to her classes on a day I’m free, and I have to say I’m pretty excited to do it.  I guess they’d probably ask me questions about school and life in the US, and hopefully I’d get to learn a little from them.

One of the biggest differences we discussed was the lack of controversy over sex education in Danish schools, and the more modern attitudes towards sex and marriage.  For example, many families in Copenhagen would allow a 17-year-old, high school aged daughter to have her boyfriend sleep over for the night.  There is almost no expectation for people to marry before having sex (and there hasn’t been for 20 years), and it is common practice to have children before marriage.  Of course, abstinence-only education is unheard of, and condoms are readily available to teens.

It would be my first instinct to point the finger at religion for the differences between Denmark and the US, but if I did that, I would be stumped when the topic changes from sex to drug policy.  In Denmark, there has been a recent trend toward more regressive drug policies, with harsher punishment for possession and dealing and no differentiation between cannabis and hard drugs. In a country where religion plays a minor role, irrationality is certainly prevalent.  There is little discussion of cannabis legalization even in the major left-leaning newspaper (that would be Politiken, from what I’m told), and though there is little evidence that major police action against cannabis dealers and users is successfully curbing sale and use.

I still have much to learn about these issues; these are just my first reactions based on things that I’ve discussed with Danes and things that have been discussed in my classes. One final thought, though.  It makes me feel a little bit warm inside when one of the parties with parliamentary (Folketing) representation in Denmark, the Red-Green Alliance (Enhedslisten), has the following as one of their party’s objectives:

They might only have 4 seats in the Folketing out of 179, but…a party that talks about the “struggle against capitalism” has more than 0!

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